September 27th, 2010
Personal resilience is particularly vital for professionals for a number of reasons. They need to be robust to help their clients deal with the emotional problems and challenges they are facing that often result in confrontation, worry and stress. Professionals care about what they do and the quality of their services, so when mistakes are made, they are upset. As we have discussed already, they have to make difficult and complex judgements where there is no ‘right’ answer or absolute or predetermined solution, but only the ‘best answer’ for that particular situation. Even the most proficient professionals cannot always deliver what their clients want, with the result that they get blamed for this ‘failure’. Their clients often demand 24 hour access to them with increasing pressure being placed on their speed of response. They often have a working environment that can be noisy, disruptive and exhausting, with distractions from phone calls, emails, meetings and colleagues, resulting in them being overwhelmed and stressed with no time to think quietly or the energy to do their most difficult and complex work.
They may make mistakes due to having too much to do, being tired, as a result of inattention or being given responsibility for something outside their sphere of knowledge or ability. Because of the importance of their work, such mistakes can have severe repercussions. In addition, they may be blamed for mistakes that are not their fault and/or spend time and energy sorting out a problem that they would not have created in the first place. They can sometimes work in a competitive environment that creates an unwillingness to admit when they do not know the answer, so they fail to ask colleagues for help, leaving them to cope on their own with a resultant loss of perspective when problems arise. In the most serious situation, they can face the pressure of dealing with a formal complaint or claim against them, and become defensive and hostile to non-professionals attempting to make judgements on the quality of their service provision.
This may seem a long list and it is. Professional practice is not easy and I feel that too little emphasis is placed on developing ways of coping with it. A lot of attention is paid to intellectual ability and skill development, but a lot less (if any) goes into the emotional side.
Tags: care, challenges, competitive, complaint, judgements, mistakes, professionals, quality, resilience, stress
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September 8th, 2010
My new book, Developing resilience – the key to professional success has arrived! Rather than my previous two books that focussed on business development, this one is about personal development. I wrote it because I was all too aware of how much good professionals, who care about the quality of the services they provide have been knocked off course in recent years.
For more information, please contact me on faw@westwood-associates.com.
Tags: book, confidence, good guys, pressures, resilience, success, uncertainty
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August 19th, 2010
With increasing pressure on graduate employment, I feel that professional educators play an important role in getting their students as resilient as possible before they seek to enter the workplace. It is essential from the outset of their academic experience to show students the importance of behaving professionally and with integrity by going back to first principles and formally stating what will be expected of them in all Student Handbooks. This goes beyond statements about plagerism. In addition, students should become used to getting constructive feedback on their performance and be able to respond to this positively. They should also be able to learn by observing other people and build on their own self-awareness. And finally, they should be taught to become comfortable with managing uncertainty.
Tags: educators, feedback, observation, self-awareness, uncertainty
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August 5th, 2010
People have been asking me what are the key things that they need to concentrate on to build their personal resilience. In my view, it is essential to develop confidence in our own judgement and learn to notice when we ‘got it right’. We also need to be kind to ourselves when we feel we have made a mistake.
Tags: confidence, judgement, mistake
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July 17th, 2010
Unfortunately most client work does not stop to suit the timings of our summer holidays. It is not unusual for a communication problem to develop at this point. I worked at one point for a great lawyer who believed quite rightly in taking a decent break with his family in July and would usually give me a run down of what was likely to come up when he was away. He had a great PA who knew his work inside out and kept an eye on most things without any help from me. However, some clients simply would not accept that he has ‘deserted’ them in their hour of need and became demanding and anxious.
Remember that clients need sensitive handling just now and if you are off on holdiay, let them know that you are away, who will be dealing with their work and that you ‘trust’ that person to do as good a job as you!
Tags: clients, communication, trust
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July 17th, 2010
It is often difficult to get the time to stop and reflect how well you are doing as we dash on to the next meeting. project or client file. Summer holidays usually result in having to work twice as hard the week before you leave to clear the Inbox and twice as hard the first week back, so is it worth it?
In my view, managers should worry when they see people not taking holidays. I can think of a number of people who are so disorganised that they seem incapable of clearing a space to get away and nowadays it is all too easy to allow emails to follow us around the world. I know some people prefer to access their emails when they are on holiday to avoid them backing up in their Inbox but seriously it is better to get a complete break from work. Not only does it help puts things into perspective, it also ensure s that we do escape from the daily worries of work.
Tags: perspective
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July 2nd, 2010
My third book, Developing Resilience – the key to professional success will be published in September. It is designed to help the ‘good guy’s – people who care about the job they do and take personal responsibility for it. Reading it will help them cope better with the pressures of everyday practice as well as allow them to have a clearer sense of what they want to achieve for themselves in the long term.
Tags: book, coping, good guys, hello, personal responsibility, pressures, professionals, publication, success, this
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